Dating married but separated men
He hardly ever spends the night at my place because (as he says) he doesn't sleep well here and needs to get rest to be able to work.
When he comes to see me in the evening, he ususally rushes out again soon under some excuses (has to go back to work, has to take his sister from work etc.).
When I told him recently that I doubt if he's actually separated, he seemed to be frankly hurt (not upset).
Before you can move on to a new relationship, you need to let go of the old one. Just let it run its natural course and do plenty to nurture yourself as you move forward. On the other hand, if you’re finding reasons to let things drag on, it could be that you’re finding excuses to hold back. If you’re on the rebound, you’re more likely to make bad decisions or get into relationships for all the wrong reasons.
It’s normal to feel lonely and vulnerable after a divorce, but that isn’t a reason to rush into a new relationship. If you’re just looking for someone to fill the gap left by your ex, you won’t make the best choices for yourself.
While it’s true that you do need to be extra mindful of your needs and motivations, dating while separated isn’t impossible.
Before you consider getting back into the dating game, you’ll need some real honest talks with your ex. If your ex is hoping for a reconciliation, they’re not going to love the idea of you dating someone new.
Friends tell me I should leave because I'll be hurt in the end, but I feel like with time, maybe he will want something after he moves past his marriage.
I'm just not sure whether I should stay in it and wait it out, or not.One night, we were out just the two of us, and he told me his wife had been traveling for work for the past few months and their marriage was basically over. He said he had dealt with all his feelings and had accepted it. We decided that we'd be exclusively sleeping with each other, and we go on dates and spend a lot of time together, but he doesn't want anything more serious.His wife is leaving again soon and they're technically separated, but I know they obviously still talk.Dating while going through a divorce can have a number of negative effects on the divorce proceedings, both in court and emotionally.Additionally, while every state is now a no-fault divorce state, marital misconduct can still be considered in some situations.I just have his word and that of his sister (which I weight high because we're friends).Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating