Dating southern men

There is something about the way Southern men treat a lady that really gets me going (in a good way). They don't get all pissy on you when you cry, they think most of the stupid things you do are cute, and they are very good at teasing you till you are so hot under the collar you could just die! The only reason I say that is because Northern men like the tough no nonsense women, where as Southern men are raised to marry a traditional propper perky "lady." Although, Southern men are usually a lot more down to earth than Northern men.

They Tend To Be Close To Their Family Any guy who has a great relationship with his family, especially his mom, is definitely a catch.6.

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Which is all exotic and and weird and exciting, until you realize that a – you don’t understand anything they are saying and b – nothing is being communicated. The first type will “smooth-talk a girl with their southern charm, then do it again and again – with as many girls as possible” (i.e. ) The second type views dating as a an old-school “wife-selection process”, with the end goal of landing a “dutiful, big-haired, long-lashed” Southern Belle (i.e NOT ME! Although my one attempt to curl my hair left me with a 3 degree burn, I’m still mildly tempted by the idea of moving down South, where my size 4 equals a zero and I never have to attend another Pilates class for the rest my life. ” Call me weird, but I am generally not a big proponent of such extremes, making me realize that no amount of chivalry – or cheese grits – can turn me into a demure, Jesus-loving, gun-toting country gal!

Still interested, but guns ain’t your thing either? It’s safer and gives you a good view of those Levi’s!

This vision was fresh on my mind when I headed down to Nashville, Tennessee over the Winter Break, joining some friends in the exploration of all things country, cowboys included.

Always on the investigative prowl, I made it my mission to talk to as many lads as possible, mainly by forcing them into the popular local activity of playing pool. He counted up the other day and realized that, up to a couple of years ago, he'd been on ten first dates in his entire life. Well, before you write Southern Man off as a complete loser, we note that eight of those led to long-term relationships. But he does actually has some idea of what he wants in a relationship.With one first date that was not followed by a second (this was the girl that Southern Mother had picked out for him) and Southern Man's one-and-only one-night stand. So, here are the Six Rules for Dating Southern Man. There's a seventy-billion-dollar-a-year industry eager to help you out. And if you're offended by that, too bad: girls screen (and reject) guys by attractiveness and physique far more vigorously than we do. To earn a second date, you must on that first date present yourself as feminine and sweet. Don't you realize that men seek feminine characteristics in their partners, not masculine ones?Southern men believe in working hard to make a relationship work. Gail Rouse, assistant professor of psychology at Clark Atlanta University says “Southern men are more committed to trying to work on a relationship because its the right thing to do. Northern men believe if the relationship doesn’t work, they can go to another relationship.” 4. But for my particular personality, it can be a nice match. I like feeling like I can be a lady and I don't have to be tough or worry about being seen as weak. You can find possessive and controlling men in Idaho just as easily as Georgia. She met this last man online and after a year of online dating she packed up all her kids and moved to AL to be with him.

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