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The origins of sexual racism can be explained by looking at its history, especially in the USA, where the abolition of slavery and the Reconstruction Era had significant impacts on interracial mixing.

Attitudes towards interracial relationships, and indeed marriage, have increased in positivity in the last 50 years.

I know it was not something we discussed or I saw growing up in my family, before or after my parents divorced and they got into other relationships.

I want to start by highlighting a series of dates I had with one of the first guys I met, as an example of how to build intimacy.

I think it is an under-discussed but important topic for black women in dating.

I am not sure healthy intimacy is even a notion or concept on many BW’s radar.

Sharing the basic premise, originating from the 'taboo' nature of interracial relations, individuals of other racial groups are classified as forbidden sexual objects; the result of a racial fetish.

This sexualised reductionism is, concurrently, a form of sexual racism.

A couple of months ago, I downloaded Tinder after hearing good things about it.

And in one month’s time, I had four dates with three guys, pretty much the same amount as the last two or three years. But now that I am back on the dating scene I’ve been thinking a lot about a crucial concept: intimacy.

In 1968, 73% of US citizens disapproved of the right to marry inter-racially, whereas this figure dropped to 17% by 2007, this illustrating the reduction in discriminatory attitudes towards interracial dating.

Irrespective of this, there still remains the issue of sexual racism in the online dating world, in that preferences appear to follow a racial hierarchy.

I grew up in one of the seventeen cities in the United States named Rochester (Wikipedia, 2015).

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